Jason's supposed to get orders this week. (Tomorrow actually, but I'm not holding my breath.)
I have another week until I'll know if I'm having normal cycles again.
Kaelin officially starts her homeschooling next week, so we have to pack a summer's worth of fun into 7 days.
Fun times.
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Monday, August 16, 2010
Thursday, August 12, 2010
MacGyver Thundercats Picard
We'll, Jason and I are officially trying.
We've gone back and forth since before Harper was born about when we wanted Baby #3 (henceforth known as MacGyver Thundercats Picard Embry). We had decided to wait until he got his orders so we had some idea of where we would be and when he would be deployed anytime soon. But since he found out he's going to be staff pick-up, we know he's not going anywhere for the next few years.
Now, I know there are people who think having a third kid right now is just too soon (Hi Mom!). But trust me on this -- we have looked at every possible pro and con of which we could think. For instance:
Con: Changing Two Sets of Diapers a Day
Response: Most babies are potty-trained between the ages of 2 and 3. So, even if we waited there would be a good that Harper would still be in diapers. Plus, toddlers tend to regress a little when a new sibling arrives, so even if she was out of diapers at the time, we would probably have more accidents with which to deal anyways. Besides, it's not like changing diapers is a significant part of my day or something I dread. Everybody poops!
Con: Harper Won't Have Time to be 'The Baby'
Response: So? First, it's not like she'll remember the mounds of attention she gets right now. Plus, we already have another kid so it's not like Harper gets 100% of her parents 100% of the time as it is. Having a sibling close in age will give her a playmate and a lifelong friend. One of my regrets with Kaelin was that she doesn't have a sister that's near her developmentally. Someone with whom to share secrets and clothes. A new baby doesn't replace Harper; we'll still love the immeasurable amount we already do.
Con: Can't Run a Marathon Pregnant
Response: Of course you can! Not that I would as a beginning marathoner, but it's not like marathons are a once in a lifetime event. If I'm too pregnant to run the Kansas Marathon in 2011, I can run a fall marathon. Or, I can run it in 2012.
Edit -- Apparently, the 2011 Kansas Marathon has been canceled. I take it as a sign.
Con: The Closer in Age, The Greater the Sibling Rivalry
Response: Studies actually show the opposite to be true. Also, the younger the child is when I new sibling arrives, they less they feel like they are being replaced. Besides, I think that sibling rivalry is more a product of the parent/child relationship than that of the siblings.
This list could go on and on and on and that's without me even putting a dent in the pros.
We've gone back and forth since before Harper was born about when we wanted Baby #3 (henceforth known as MacGyver Thundercats Picard Embry). We had decided to wait until he got his orders so we had some idea of where we would be and when he would be deployed anytime soon. But since he found out he's going to be staff pick-up, we know he's not going anywhere for the next few years.
Now, I know there are people who think having a third kid right now is just too soon (Hi Mom!). But trust me on this -- we have looked at every possible pro and con of which we could think. For instance:
Con: Changing Two Sets of Diapers a Day
Response: Most babies are potty-trained between the ages of 2 and 3. So, even if we waited there would be a good that Harper would still be in diapers. Plus, toddlers tend to regress a little when a new sibling arrives, so even if she was out of diapers at the time, we would probably have more accidents with which to deal anyways. Besides, it's not like changing diapers is a significant part of my day or something I dread. Everybody poops!
Con: Harper Won't Have Time to be 'The Baby'
Response: So? First, it's not like she'll remember the mounds of attention she gets right now. Plus, we already have another kid so it's not like Harper gets 100% of her parents 100% of the time as it is. Having a sibling close in age will give her a playmate and a lifelong friend. One of my regrets with Kaelin was that she doesn't have a sister that's near her developmentally. Someone with whom to share secrets and clothes. A new baby doesn't replace Harper; we'll still love the immeasurable amount we already do.
Con: Can't Run a Marathon Pregnant
Response: Of course you can! Not that I would as a beginning marathoner, but it's not like marathons are a once in a lifetime event. If I'm too pregnant to run the Kansas Marathon in 2011, I can run a fall marathon. Or, I can run it in 2012.
Edit -- Apparently, the 2011 Kansas Marathon has been canceled. I take it as a sign.
Con: The Closer in Age, The Greater the Sibling Rivalry
Response: Studies actually show the opposite to be true. Also, the younger the child is when I new sibling arrives, they less they feel like they are being replaced. Besides, I think that sibling rivalry is more a product of the parent/child relationship than that of the siblings.
This list could go on and on and on and that's without me even putting a dent in the pros.
Unfortunately, creating MacGyver isn't as simple as A + B = C. At my age, the chances of conception during a normal cycle is 20%. But my cycles aren't normal. They've never been normal and breastfeeding doesn't make them any better. For the past several years, I've had really irregular cycles, anywhere from 30 to 75 days. Most have been anovulatory. The few cycles I have released and egg, I've had a short luteal phase (meaning the egg can be fertilized but can't implant).
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| Because I know you really wanted to see my chart! |
It was nothing short of a miracle that we conceived Harper (or really good luck if you don't believe in that sort of thing).
I have had my first postpartum bleeding and I have gobs of amazing cervical fluid which are both good signs. But neither is any guarantee that I'm ovulating and I won't know what my luteal phase looks like for a few cycles. We could get pregnant tomorrow or it could take years. Worst case scenario is that I would have to wean Harper and then wait months for my body to adjust. Although, that's not a guarantee because my fertility was really low even before I started nursing.
All we can do in the meantime is try and wait.
Friday, June 25, 2010
An Open Letter
Dear Period,
Well, it's been a while. Honestly, I haven't missed you all that much. I knew that we would have to meet up again someday, but less than 5 months? Why are you punishing me just because my exclusively breastfed baby is sleeping through the night? It doesn't seem fair.
You suck,
Jen
(Less than 7% of ecologically breastfeeding moms get their periods back before 6 months. The average is 14 months. See... I told you it's not fair.)
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Well, it's been a while. Honestly, I haven't missed you all that much. I knew that we would have to meet up again someday, but less than 5 months? Why are you punishing me just because my exclusively breastfed baby is sleeping through the night? It doesn't seem fair.
You suck,
Jen
(Less than 7% of ecologically breastfeeding moms get their periods back before 6 months. The average is 14 months. See... I told you it's not fair.)
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